Walking Away

[thir]

You tried to talk to him – yet again! – about the fact that he has two subs, that he says he wants & likes having two very different subs, but he only ever acknowledges or talks about the one. When he says he understands how it seems & how it makes you feel but doesn’t have any answers for you, can’t explain why he does it, doesn’t do anything to change it – do you leave then?

I would say yes. It sounds like a mismatch.

It sometimes happens that love/friendship is not enough. That some differencies are simply incompatible, however much you try, however much you grieve over it, or wish it different.

That is when you have to split up, however painful a thing that always is.

Let go with love, learn, and go search again.

I never said it was easy. Just nessecary.

The very best of luck on your way, a wishing you the happiness you seek.