Being under a Dom, who is under one themselves?

[skittish doe]

what I'm asking is, how do YOU feel about it?

An excellent question. Ylatch, you alone have this answer. After you have determined the answer for yourself, discuss it with your Dom. Perhaps you only feel that your relationship dynamic has changed. But if you feel it, then you need to address this feeling with your Dominant. Your feelings should not be ignored, by either of you.

Welcome to the journey. Enjoy.