HMMM....everything worked out in contract form first?....where does that leave any room to grow or expand?....things you think you might like you actually might not like....and things you think you might not like you might love.......seems to me you need to do some voyaging of discovery before getting off at the final destination.....I am an experienced dom and I would not want everything set in stone..chuckles at that.....before we even started playing....bdsm have alot of room for growth and discovery