It can be trying and dificult at best to weather those times between dominants even for the best of us.

Your familey need not know what goes on in the privacy of your bedroom btw. Mine certiantly dont and most of them live near me, heck my mother lives in the same house with me and she has no idea what my owner and I do in so far as our sex life is conserned.

Patience is a virtue that no submissive (or anyone else for that matter) can afford to forget.

That doesnt mean one must be idle while they are waiting for the right dominant.

When one doesnt have a dominant in their life to guild them, one can still be working upon one's submission however.

Think of it as an investment in your future as a submissive.

Have you looked in the tasking section of the forums?