please need some answers :)

[Liushka]

Putting some list down might indeed be a good idea, so that after some research you might have a better idea of what you want to start with. What about discussing it with your girlfriend as well?

Maybe if you bring the topic up, you might research together and talk about it before actually putting anything in practice? Communication being key in my opinion, that might be a worthy way to go.

[69Vamp69]

thank you so much for replies that helps a bit and i have done this checklist but ive found myself bit confused about some stuffs lol :/ i guess im a switch then ?

im not sure about what im so how can i talk with her if i cant make up my mind about what exactly i want ?

can anyone tell me how he/she started ? maybe that can help me sorting my mind a bit more :/

thanks for everyone helping