No need to tiptoe, HS...feel free to walk around and stomp your feet. And a warm hug is always appreciated...thanks!

I'm glad to have provided a place to share some of your story, cookiecat. And yes, some of it sounds very familar and brings back memories. *smiles* My first dive into the lifestyle was at a different site but the real journey started at the academy and here at the forums, too. I'm glad you found someone special here...and I'm looking forward to hearing how things develop.