I think submission is something that we just are. I have found that after a ton of research and communication with my Master, I can't help enjoy what I do.

On the same hand, I have and will compromise for the full effect of playing. So, its a little but of both. You are the natural submissive that you have molded yourself to be all while being the slave your Master expects you to be.

The beauty of my D/s relationship is that I can be myself 100% and He doesn't expect any less from me. Even on my bratty days, he let's out his evil laugh and indulged in it.