Good Evening......My name is Bruce as you have noticed I am sure.......in the time that I have been a dom I have noticed many new subs that want to "try it out". This is a dangerous way but I understand your fears as this is a new lifestyle for you and I am sure you are somewhat fearful of what may happen. The best way to proceed is to ask your questions. If you have questions, be my guest and ask. You will find there are many out there with many different agendas, some straight forward and some certainly not. My position is simple.....I am a dom and do not believe in sugar coating or giving washed out lies to lure others in. If you would like to talk a while drop by my post and leave a message.........Take care and enjoy the life as it is a first class style as long as it is what you want..........All the best