Interesting read for sure....

When I first started the journey into this lifestyle, I too had a thirst for knowledge. I became good friends with Google. I figured even if I didn't agree with it, I needed to respect it. For this lifestyle is so much more, in my opinion, than a kinky sex experience.

I posted a thread called "Unspoken Rules of BDSM" in this forum to find out what proper etiquette was for the lifestyle.

After many hours on this site and a lot of Google visits, I have found that there is no set in stone way to live a BDSM lifestyle. I particularly found that most of my attention was focused on your second post on wanting to be a sub. I am sure that many people live their D/s relationship to the point where their Master picks out the music, clothes, food, etc. However, each person is an individual. Sure, we all have the same basic idea, but each relationship is molded to what fits their needs.

My Master loves my individuality, but there have been times where he has enforced his role. I am a collared slave that does as I am told. I don't hesitate or resist. Him and I do not live together but regardless of whether I am wearing my collar or not, this slave is His to do with as He pleases.

My main point is that the above stated is not going to work for every single D/s relationship. I did find it a very interesting read and I thank you for posting it I truly enjoy seeing every aspect of this lifestyle.