posting here mostly because i like posting XD

so... i am a submissive female, who during her last longterm relationship was asked to top, weird right? ive always thought of it as something to the effect of "pleasing" my boyfriend at the time by doing as asked, and if that means topping for a night, well sure. but im off topic... anyways, he would never admit to it but he was quite happy being a sub, but only when HE wanted it, now ive seen male submissives, they are an interesting lot really but not that hard to find. it all depends on what kind of sub you want, the younger ones (anywhere from 18-23ish) tend to be more innocent and pliable, whereas the older ones have a set THING in their mind that they want USUALLY , ive met 50 year old innocent male submissives online as well. now keeping on topic, its wrong to call them sex hungry or looking for masturbatory aids SOME are like that but thats as bad as lumping all of us female submissive into the category "mentally unhealthy, probably crazy, slut" ect... there are alot of reasons that one submits, be it because they like it, because it works, or like most lifestylers ive met, because they had something happen to them in the early stages of development that though traumatizing caused them to seek out BDSM therapy(atleast thats what i call it... being in the submissive mind puts all my fears and anxieties to rest)

either way, yes male submissives are rare, not because they are all obnoxious but because half of them dont even know what they want or have no idea about the lifestyle or are afraid to show it because "men" are supposed to be the Dominant ones. like my ex, who now probably craves more than anything to find a Domme as good as i was for him but wont tell anyone because its embarrassing.