Quote Originally Posted by cariad(CC)
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What happened in the incident I mentioned with myself was a transition between enjoying submissive activites, and truly being so. It took a very wise man to see that, and I will always be grateful to him for it.
cariad
This has been a very enlightening thread and I just had to stop and take pause at this comment. It is that a-ha moment - the light bulb going off, so to speak. cariad, i always appreciate reading your posts and for me, this one spoke to me. The difference between playing sub and being submissive.

Thanks, cookiecat

ps.... was going to go to bed to really think this over; however, my mind keeps skipping back to Oz's post and somehow think i might be dreaming about that restaurant.