My response here may sound overly cliched and very much like an after school special, but if your friend couldn't accept that you chose a different lifestyle than she has, and leave judgement to her almighty, all-knowing God, instead of judging you herself, she wasn't much of a friend to begin with. I'm sorry if that sounds a bit harsh, but even the BIBLE says "Judge not, lest ye be judged." (Matthew 7:1). It is not her place to decide what is and is not acceptable for you to do within your own life. Judgement, according to Christianity, is something reserved for GOD to do. Not His followers. Again, this may sound harsh, and if it does, I'm sorry, but that's how I see it.