Jealousy

[propertyofslavehaven]

I do know where my jealousy comes from. It comes from thinking im not good enough for him and he can find someone else that can serve him better than me. Master reasures me constantly that isnt the case and I am his number one. That is what I have been working on; my insecurities. Its something I have to do myself and Master can not help me with this. believe me he has tried. I will always be jealous because my love, devotion and dedication for him is more than words can say. I just got to learn how to deal with my jealousy in the correct manor when it comes out. Im making progress and doing great with it, but it is one of those things that will always be hard and its also one of those things that makes him see how much i love and worship him. I will never get tired of doing that.

[denuseri]

I do not recommend in any circumstances D/s M/s Gorean/ oldschool/ fetball/ furry etc or otherwise, that a new partner be introduced into any kind of relationship without the express and full consent / 100% approval of any and ALL partners involved, and yes that most certifiably includes live in owned slaves as well.

If one partner, regardless of status within the relationship dynamic revokes consent or isnt comfortable with giving or having given it then poof! its SSC 101, administrative timeout what have you, all play, all dominating and submitting etc is done until the issue whatever it may be is either resolved or new dynamic is agreed upon or the relationship is terminated.



If you have issues or have developed issues: with sharing, or poly or really anything from no boobie torture before 3pm to no bdsm in front of the uninitiated or no tickle torture for hard limits etc ....then voice them, insist upon them prior to play and if a condition arises later...voice it too, dont let things slide or get all "but I live to serve I have to do it" mush mush...cause all your doing by going down that road is a diservice to yourself and your other partners.

[propertyofslavehaven]

Why do I feel jealous when I trust my Master completely and love him unconditionly? Its torcher for him and me.

[thir]

Why do I feel jealous when I trust my Master completely and love him unconditionly? Its torcher for him and me.

I think it is because the feeling does not come from him, but from inside you. Meaning, it does not matter how much you trusth him, if you have a little 'enemy' inside which cannot find peace. You'd have to heal that first.

Does that make sense?

[thir]

I do not recommend in any circumstances D/s M/s Gorean/ oldschool/ fetball/ furry etc or otherwise, that a new partner be introduced into any kind of relationship without the express and full consent / 100% approval of any and ALL partners involved, and yes that most certifiably includes live in owned slaves as well.

If one partner, regardless of status within the relationship dynamic revokes consent or isnt comfortable with giving or having given it then poof! its SSC 101, administrative timeout what have you, all play, all dominating and submitting etc is done until the issue whatever it may be is either resolved or new dynamic is agreed upon or the relationship is terminated.



If you have issues or have developed issues: with sharing, or poly or really anything from no boobie torture before 3pm to no bdsm in front of the uninitiated or no tickle torture for hard limits etc ....then voice them, insist upon them prior to play and if a condition arises later...voice it too, dont let things slide or get all "but I live to serve I have to do it" mush mush...cause all your doing by going down that road is a diservice to yourself and your other partners.

Absolutely right.