Quote Originally Posted by Stevie1211 View Post
Is it possible that my wife will ever try and let me be the Dominant she needs or am I doomed for her to do this again?
I find it a little ironic that you wonder if your wife will "let" you be the dominant she needs. The problems with your marriage aren't bondage and D/s but rather trust and communication. She probably doesn't believe you want to talk about BDSM or try anything because of your own interest in it but as a last ditch effort to keep her. I have my own issues with trust and communication. Master has declared that there shall be no secrets between us. He's been hacking through the thorns for the past year, and though he may get to the other side scratched and bloody, get there he will. Persistence pays off. If you want her to talk to you, you have to be someone she can trust not to "freak out." I'd suggest dropping the kids off at Grandma's for a weekend getaway to reconnect.