ok...not sure Im in the right spot to post this...here it goes: I love the Library...been on here since 2010 +/-. I have been through hell N high water in my personal life and came upon this site by accident. I have to say everyone/anyone who has communicated with me has been respectful, courteous and (non)sleazy (if there is a term for that). I am back on this year going through hell N high water again...and love that I can come back and pick up. I have been on other sites and...here I am again. I am grateful to the administrators who have/n still r keeping this site up. So any new people looking for a spot I encourage you to get involved here. The tasking section was new when I came, is a very cool, anonymous way for you to task and meet new people. This site isn't about a quick *uc** but to get to know yourself in this lifestyle. I'm glad to report I have not learned it ALL and nor do I expect to. I'm only more understanding of the D/s relationship which has enriched and contributed to my rl well being but also puts me at peace.