An Unexpected Turn of Events

[Can's Peaches]

Congrats to you both. Long distance can be difficult but it can and does work out. Four hours is not that bad.

[Dorkalicious]

Aww, you guys are really great!


I'm just going to take deep breaths and take it as it comes to me. Last night I had some anxiety, but I think everything will be fine. If anyone has any ideas for long distance relationships, all is welcome. We both understand that communication is the big one. But I am sure that some of you have figured out ways to make it slightly easier. He and I have already been brainstorming, lol.

[Logic1]

ooh
I go away for a bit and lovely things like this happens.
Congratulations to you both!
Happiness cant be enjoyed in too big doses so make sure you 2 enjoy it fully

[cbtboyuk]

Hurray! How wonderful - i'm hoping it's all going well.

My Master and i still live in different cities - for various reasons external to the relationship itself - but it's been wonderful for seven years and we civil partnership'd last July - so it can be done! Yay!

The distance is only a problem if you allow it to be....it can act as a lense to magnify otherwise insignificant problems. the best thign to do there is as you say communicate. Get on the phone asap and talk about it while it's a tiny niggle.

Also the truth is you might have sacrifice something for the relatiomship. When we first met, i played rugby every weekend, and for the first season He was wonderful - came to the matches and generally was a supportive rugby widow. But as we only got to see each other at weekends, i realised as things got serious i was going to have to choose, and it wasn't going to be rugby. Shame but worth it for the love of one's life!

Besides, i needed to spend more time at His feet!

[Dorkalicious]

Under your spell again
I can't say no to you
crave my heart and its bleeding in your hand
I can't say no to you

Shouldn't have let you torture me so sweetly
now I can't let go of this dream
I can't breathe but I feel

Good enough
I feel good enough for you

Drink up sweet decadence
I can't say no to you
and I've completely lost myself and I don't mind
I can't say no to you

Shouldn't have let you conquer me completely
now I can't let go of this dream
can't believe that I feel

Good enough
I feel good enough
its been such a long time coming, but I feel good

and I'm still waiting for the rain to fall
pour real life down on me
cause I can't hold on to anything this good
enough
am I good enough
for you to love me too?

so take care what you ask of me
cause I can't say no
Evanescence - Good Enough

I just thought it was pretty amazing how fitting this song is...

(Edit)
Just for the record, not ALL of it applies. Most of it does though.
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