Oral Sex and Domination

[Kevin Fox]

@leo9, no orgasm can make subbes beg just as it can subs... have you never been brought to the edge, only for your Dom to stop?! It takes skill to get a woman wet and then deny her.
@Adriana, Mae West lives!

[star_sparkle]

i love sucking His cock. i dont know who enjoys it more..me or Him

[Diablo]

I quite enjoy giving oral sex and even giving foot massages.

Does this make me any less of a Dom?

Not at all, I am taking pleasure for myself and my sub is also receiving pleasure. And she knows that it is a way of me thanking her for her gift of submission as I get what I want as well. The main difference as has been said in earlier posts is in how it is done.

[Master Will Tupper]

For me, it's a dominant pleasure as much as any other. But then, I enjoy the taste of slavegirl. If she likes it, too, that's just the cherry on top of the sundae. And submissive orgasms bind her tighter than the strongest chains. So for me it's like, "Spread, sweetmeat! Dinner is served."

[Daumon]

A Dom should feel in control of himself and his charge. For me preforming oral sex with my sub is still a matter of control. I do so when I wish, how I wish to do so and either to tease or to give pleasure. A dom should not deny themself or their sub from something they both enjoy. To simple not do so for fear of diminishing ones 'image' is to admit your self image already needs real work.

For myself I enjoy teasing a sub to a nearly mindless state of pleasure and dragging that state out over a very long period of time. To savior a subs desire and need for release and their struggle for self restraint as you wish.
It is a sweet game that a talented toung can make last far lounger than almost any other method.

Daumon

[SilverWulf]

Performing oral on a girl is definitely a form of control and in no way diminishes my Domliness. I can make her cum at any time, or make her wait, and wait, and wait. I love to make a girl cum until her body just gives out completely, and then take My pleasure in other devious, twisted, and perverted ways while she lays there only moderately conscious (consensually of course), only to start again when she recovers enough to begin forming coherent thoughts. A most pleasant way to pass the weekend.

[HisKitty]

I have to agree... I was giving my Master a really slooow blow job once, really drawing it out just because it was fun and he was really enjoying himself and relaxing on the couch. And my playful-kitty side suddenly came out >_> There was inner giggling that he was like, waiting on me... and afterwards I told him how I had felt an element of control that I don't usually feel and I felt kind of bad but he said it was okay, lol. That he was enjoying me just lavishing him while he relaxed. Aaaand that kitties totally have a devious, playful side that can't help but manifest sometimes xD

[Warmaster]

...having one, or all, my girls properly restrained, and enjoying how delightfully they wriggle at the flick of my tongue tip...what's not properly 'Dom' about it?
Done the right way, it can also be a really handy tool in the Dom's kit for punishment...like taking a girl right to the edge, and stopping.
Also, there's times when I use it as a reward, or just for the simple sake of giving them pleasure.
But, they all KNOW that the nastier side of my tongue doesn't deal with words.

[Solorrman]

I realy like to be dominated by a teen

[Solorrman]

I like to b dominated in a way that i must perform all kinky things to the mistress with no question whatsoever.
I like humiliation like spit in the mouth,snort eating, urinal consumption and oral going down eating all gooy snatch squart. I am looking for a mistress pls

[Sir Phat Daddy]

I myself do enjoy giving the female sub oral but it all depends on my mood and how long shes been around me. It doesnt in my mind fit in with the SM I prefer but more of a reward for being a good pet.

[Kargan3033]

Hello people nice to see you all here.
I have found this topic and your replys most informtive.
Here's a bit of info I wish to share with my fellow Dom/mes.
I'm a novice Dom, I have a very basic and I do mean basic understandong of a Dom/sub relationship, I have never had a real life subby/slave and I could use all the advice I can get.
As for for oral sex and Domination this topic has given me a few ideas for not only controling my real life slave when I finaly find her but it has given me a few idea to spice up some of my more kinkyer stories.
Again thanks for the engrossing topic.
I look forward to hear from you all.
Peace.
Kargan3033

[Matin]

i thought denial of orgasms was common lol. she's not even allowed to get herself off without permission.

she has to call or text me. so if i tie her to the bedposts and eat her till she's flopping around and begging - or not; gags are fun - isn't that domination? *shrug* works for me!

[leo9]

I've never seen the point of orgasm denial, because any fool can not make a woman come. One of my ground rules is that you dominate men by not letting them come and women by making them come till they beg for it to stop. And yes, when she's fighting and trying to kick you away and you keep on licking till she loses it again... what's not dominant?

[Warmaster]

I've never seen the point of orgasm denial, because any fool can not make a woman come. One of my ground rules is that you dominate men by not letting them come and women by making them come till they beg for it to stop. And yes, when she's fighting and trying to kick you away and you keep on licking till she loses it again... what's not dominant?

A very good point, and one I do use now and then. Also, I will say that taking them to the edge--then stopping and letting them just 'boil' has it's merits also.

[Oriana1981]

I've never seen the point of orgasm denial, because any fool can not make a woman come. One of my ground rules is that you dominate men by not letting them come and women by making them come till they beg for it to stop. And yes, when she's fighting and trying to kick you away and you keep on licking till she loses it again... what's not dominant?

Well well, a guy who really knows how to handle a woman when it comes to oral sex! I had a bf who made me discover that I could lose it again! Now every new fuck buddy I have must do it! It is my way or the high way!

[Tweek213]

I use oral as both. For me it can be as much about allowing my sub the pleasure of the sensation as it is about controlling the scene in the way that I see fit. I agree with Daumon in that it's always about how and when I choose. If anything it only reinforces my dominance.

[CharlesWolf77]

In a few of my femdom stories, oral sex is used by the dominant female either as a torture or because there's a consequence (my most recent story had the protagonist struggling not to cum while being held by a six-armed spider-succubus, that was fellating him.)

[slaveboy 6]

As a submissive male, i love to be forced to suck pussy, and i have done so in many different positions.

[ISOMore417]

Just curious… Were you successful?

[jbond]

As a reward it feels pleasurable. Being in control in the relationship feels great. Oral sex it's really more enjoyable and just enjoying each other's body.