Chatroom and wet toes

[Ozme52]

suchaminx, nice to see you making a presence here at the forum as well.

[suchaminx]

Ozme, I have thought about posting several times and have finally taking that first step!

Thanks for noticing and I am sure I will be back

[Qmoq]

I agree with Ozme - welcome minx! It was so nice for your first post to be a plea for Edmondo to return. I think mine would probably have been something about nipple clamps. Hehe.

In response to Edmondo, I had no experience when I joined the chatroom, but if I'd come across a sub, I'd have treated her with little respect, deliberate scorn, and arbitrary punishments. So I'll be a better person because of the chatroom...

Cheers,

Q

[Warbaby1943]

This is an interesting thread to say the least especially since I haven't been to the chat except by accident one day and then only for about 5 minutes. Seems though that the people there must be very similar to the ones who post here. Probably good reason for that, huh?

Anyway it appears I am missing a large part of this site by not being involved in the chat room.

[Warbaby1943]

i dunno Warbaby... there aren't usually naked females in there either *giggles*

But yes, MANY of the forums stalkers are also chat stalkers!!!

Hey I'm not a stalker but the lack nakedness would be fine.

[SheepishJaina]

I've gotten to know some of my fellow goofballs *smooches delia and giggles* more through chatting that i would have just from the forums. Started chatting about trivial stuff, did a bit of playing, and as I started figuring out who was who, and some of their personal quirks, it was easier to start up more in depth conversations. I'm not saying this can't be done on the forums as well, but PM chasing takes more time than the instant back and forth messaging.

Be yourself when you come in. Join in the main conversation, ask questions, and have fun. (while minding all the rules)

[dzire2pleeze]

~shaking my head@delia~ geez...once a moderator always a moderator ...giggles.

I have yet to experience any major snobbery in the chatroom...there are seldom heated arguments or disagreements that aren't approached with respect. if anyone becomes abusive or annoying, the mods jump right on them...they are either kicked (just ask delia) or banned for good.

The reason I frequent chat is because of the other fine and fun people that frequent chat....some have become very good e-friends. One has become...blushes and giggles...my Sarge.

The chatroom for me is a place to gather with friends; to have fun. It is very much like the forums. The difference being in the room you are able to talk to people one on one.

[Warbaby1943]

~shaking my head@delia~ geez...once a moderator always a moderator ...giggles.

I have yet to experience any major snobbery in the chatroom...there are seldom heated arguments or disagreements that aren't approached with respect. if anyone becomes abusive or annoying, the mods jump right on them...they are either kicked (just ask delia) or banned for good.

The reason I frequent chat is because of the other fine and fun people that frequent chat....some have become very good e-friends. One has become...blushes and giggles...my Sarge.

The chatroom for me is a place to gather with friends; to have fun. It is very much like the forums. The difference being in the room you are able to talk to people one on one.

It does sound like a great place.

[Timberwolf]

I used to hang out in the chat a bit but it's usually just too manic for my tastes. If I want a "nightclub atmosphere" (or at least the internet equivilant of it) I suppose I'd drop in, but overall I just don't think it's me.

Having said that... I met my lady there. She's not that big on chatrooms either, and was only in there for the second time ever, while I was only there at the time out of boredom. Go figure. Life is strange.

[frankee]

Ok so, this is my take on chatrooms. my first experienced .....SUCKED..not to mention scared the shit out of me! Especially for a newbie (still am lol), i always made it clear that i was new and had no experience. In hindisght, maybe that wasn't such a good idea because the freaks seemed to flock to the newbies.

my second experience was here, it was very pleasant and i had a very nice chat with a lovely man. It's still made me a little nervous being in there and i haven't been back since.

[cookiecat]

timberwolf & frankee - i'm kinda with you....i head into the chatroom to talk to a couple specific people & it's always fun to lurk....but sometimes i get overwhelmed with the conversations going on. mostly people are very respectful. so i can't say it's not that people there don't make me feel welcome; it's probably me being the wallflower! it has been an interesting way to meet like-minded people....

[Psynymph]

Uncle_Ed Your awesome!!!

my biggest problem with chat rooms is that i always feel left out. like, it's seriously like walking into a room full of people. the people are already there...already paired off into a couple different convos, and then you just walk in.....and kinda stand around awkwardly.....wondering where you fit in. so you sit there, trying to find a subject to relate too but then it's kinda like your butting into the conversation.......so you just continue to sit there. then outta no where you get this random pm...."on your knees slut!" or " please Dom me" (depending on what your profile says)......

it's quite overwhelming and in the end just a useless hassle in my opinion. i perfer pm'ing.....more personal, allows for better focus.......you can always have "conferences" with online friends......

ok so that's my two cents worth....:P

[Desperadosong]

my biggest problem with chat rooms is that i always feel left out. like, it's seriously like walking into a room full of people. the people are already there...already paired off into a couple different convos, and then you just walk in.....and kinda stand around awkwardly.....wondering where you fit in. so you sit there, trying to find a subject to relate too but then it's kinda like your butting into the conversation.......so you just continue to sit there. then outta no where you get this random pm...."on your knees slut!" or " please Dom me" (depending on what your profile says)......

I can totally relate to this Psynymph.

Ds

[Tojo]

Well I've only been in the chatroom a few times, when a friend's IM program wasn't working. I think I spent a total of 10 minutes in the lobby.

I find it hard to talk to more than one person at a time, that's my biggest problem. If I'm at a party I'll be in the kitchen having an earnest conversation with one or two people, probably women.....

I much prefer my IM program- the one on one convo where you can get to know each other.

Having said that, I've found it very warm & welcoming in the chatroom & if I didn't spend half my life on MSN & could type faster(!) I'd join in.

There's some real nice people there.

Tojo

[maddie]

Yeah. Those PMs? Ignore them. If you want, smack down the person who sends them in public, in the chat room. In our chat room, NOBODY should be private messaging you without your permission. That rule is there to prevent exactly that sort of intimidation.

Some of the regulars in chat make a big effort to be welcoming to new people. We were all new at one time and we all felt that awkwardness. It takes a little persistence to get past it, but I think it's worth it.

[buzzy]

I like chatting and interaction with others. I also, like people with manners. I've only one bad experience in the chat room, generally find it a nice place to hang out. I listen more then talk, but I'm new and do the same up close and personal. It takes time for me to lossen up, so if you see me say Hi. If we are just meeting, don't ask me to perform for you, first I might me a slut, but I'm my Mistress's slut and I'm not a whore. Secoundly, I find it rude and crude to just assume that all want to perform without so much as a how you doing today. take care to all