Cum Restriction Support Thread

[Mishka]

I think I'm starting to like cum restriction. Don't masturbate, change the subject when Master is whispering inspiring things to me so I don't send myself over the edge, etc. It's so sensual and I feel the control He has over me, and that makes it even more sensual and I'm safe.

Now the denial...when in the middle of a sexual act...that my body does not comprehend. "I just got started here!" she screams. Then she does whatever the hell she wants...because I have no idea how to simply not cum. I ended up biting down and biting down...came to a place where I thought that was the end of it...then dried up like an old sponge. Yeah. That was sensual. (note dripping sarcasm) but poor Mishka is not dripping. not even a little.

[Warbaby1943]

I think I'm starting to like cum restriction. Don't masturbate, change the subject when Master is whispering inspiring things to me so I don't send myself over the edge, etc. It's so sensual and I feel the control He has over me, and that makes it even more sensual and I'm safe.

Now the denial...when in the middle of a sexual act...that my body does not comprehend. "I just got started here!" she screams. Then she does whatever the hell she wants...because I have no idea how to simply not cum. I ended up biting down and biting down...came to a place where I thought that was the end of it...then dried up like an old sponge. Yeah. That was sensual. (note dripping sarcasm) but poor Mishka is not dripping. not even a little.

Too bad things worked out that way for you but not everyone is the same, as I'm sure you already know. Some end up dripping even more along with much frustration.

[Rhabbi]

I think I'm starting to like cum restriction. Don't masturbate, change the subject when Master is whispering inspiring things to me so I don't send myself over the edge, etc. It's so sensual and I feel the control He has over me, and that makes it even more sensual and I'm safe.

Now the denial...when in the middle of a sexual act...that my body does not comprehend. "I just got started here!" she screams. Then she does whatever the hell she wants...because I have no idea how to simply not cum. I ended up biting down and biting down...came to a place where I thought that was the end of it...then dried up like an old sponge. Yeah. That was sensual. (note dripping sarcasm) but poor Mishka is not dripping. not even a little.

We have not fully explored CD yet kitten, perhaps you will actually grow to like it as well. Though I personally doubt that, the possibility does exist.

btw

Welcome
Back

I missed you.

[Mishka]

Awww...thank You Master. i missed You, too. While i did have a very good time, cum restriction included while away, it's nice to be back. * smooch *

[good_girl]

I hope for me you are all right in that in the end it is all worth it.
I am on restriction for the first time, and yesterday, day 10, I found myself going out of my mind, it had been a bad day at work and I just wanted to come home and make it a good day. Not only have I been on restriction but the communication between us has been limited (apparently I was a bit too egar, so I am learning patience, and it's taking sooo long) As we are both new to this, I was beginning to question why he was doing this to me so I e-mailed him telling him how badly I was struggling. Although I thought this would annoy him, me already being impatient and all, it was something I needed him to know. I was pleasantly surprised later when he contacted me, and let me talk about it, that was all I needed to feel better.
Although I am happy that we were able to talk about it, and he helped me understand why, I do wish I had found this thread sooner, if I had I might not have gotten in the state I was yesterday.

[Rhabbi]

I hope for me you are all right in that in the end it is all worth it.
I am on restriction for the first time, and yesterday, day 10, I found myself going out of my mind, it had been a bad day at work and I just wanted to come home and make it a good day. Not only have I been on restriction but the communication between us has been limited (apparently I was a bit too egar, so I am learning patience, and it's taking sooo long) As we are both new to this, I was beginning to question why he was doing this to me so I e-mailed him telling him how badly I was struggling. Although I thought this would annoy him, me already being impatient and all, it was something I needed him to know. I was pleasantly surprised later when he contacted me, and let me talk about it, that was all I needed to feel better.
Although I am happy that we were able to talk about it, and he helped me understand why, I do wish I had found this thread sooner, if I had I might not have gotten in the state I was yesterday.

That is actually quite normal during training. I imposed CR on Mishka to help her deal with another problem she was having, and at first she felt like she was being punished. Your Dom sounds like a smart man to be willing to listen to your gripes when you need him to, congradulations.

[fallenstar]

i'm on day 16-- a few days back i went insane-- then i talked to Master and he suggested meditation. it really helps both to relax you and give you some control over your body. i'me now doing it several times a day :] dont know if this helps anyone, but it's certainly helping me.

[good_girl]

I think for me, I can be very stubourn, once I decide to do something I do it, but I have to keep myself focused as to why I am doing it, the conversation last night helped me refocus. When I struggle, I should spend more time here reading, instead of running around in circles losing my mind, there is so much good advice and info in these forums, a big thanks to everyone here.

[Mishka]

Our pleasure. Over and over and over again.

That's what I found to help the most, keeping busy.

CR has lifted for me, but I'm glad I had to go through it. I needed it emotionally.

Now I'm on dessert restriction. Kill me now.

[Logic1]

Our pleasure. Over and over and over again.

That's what I found to help the most, keeping busy.

CR has lifted for me, but I'm glad I had to go through it. I needed it emotionally.

Now I'm on dessert restriction. Kill me now.

not on chocolate restriction then I guess

[good_girl]

it's over...for now anyway, 12 days, I survived, thanks to you all

[Gr1m'sGirl]

it's over...for now anyway, 12 days, I survived, thanks to you all

Good job! I don't know if I'd be able to do it.

[Warbaby1943]

Good job! I don't know if I'd be able to do it.

You could do it. It's all in the mind. Mind over matter, as they say. I don't mind, so it don't matter.

[Mishka]

not on chocolate restriction then I guess

um...yes. chocolate, too

it's over...for now anyway, 12 days, I survived, thanks to you all

Good for you NE. How do you feel? Besides "survived it"?

[good_girl]

Mishka,

I feel so many things, pride being one of the big ones, funny, now that I think about it, I would have thought relief would have been the first thing that came to mind, but definitely pride is the first thing I think of. Relief is also there of course LOL. There is also a deep feeling of satisfaction, I was put to this test knowing that it would be difficult for me, and I achieved it, not for me but for him, and that gives me a lot of satisfaction.

Oh so many new feelings I have been through lately, some good some not so good. It seems, like I have been told over and over, that in the end the struggle will be worth it, I am beginning to see that for myself, day by day I am feeling better in my new skin

[Warbaby1943]

Mishka,

I feel so many things, pride being one of the big ones, funny, now that I think about it, I would have thought relief would have been the first thing that came to mind, but definitely pride is the first thing I think of. Relief is also there of course LOL. There is also a deep feeling of satisfaction, I was put to this test knowing that it would be difficult for me, and I achieved it, not for me but for him, and that gives me a lot of satisfaction.

Oh so many new feelings I have been through lately, some good some not so good. It seems, like I have been told over and over, that in the end the struggle will be worth it, I am beginning to see that for myself, day by day I am feeling better in my new skin

I believe as time progresses you will continue to feel new and great emotions you may never even have though existed. The journey together is what makes it all fantastic. Enjoy.

[Aussiegirl1]

Well, my latest CR was for 6 days and last night WB really put it to the test too! During the day I had to edge for 6 minutes, three times during the day, with both of my magic wands!!!

By the time we got online last night, I so wanted to cum! The first thing he said was that I could just beg for my CR to continue and save myself the teasing! So did I beg? No way, I was not giving up the chance to cum, even if I knew it might not happen!

So WB teased me, which was both fun and frustrating, but it was not till we had been going for around 90 mins ( 30 of it edging!) I finally gave in and begged for the CR to continue.

You know what he did then??? HE LET ME CUM! Yah! I love not knowing what he is going to do, and he knows it too. I love that he can play with my mind as well as my body. I did feel proud of getting through my CR and would have survived if it had continued.. but oh my.. that cum felt so damn good!

[Logic1]

Well, my latest CR was for 6 days and last night WB really put it to the test too! During the day I had to edge for 6 minutes, three times during the day, with both of my magic wands!!!

By the time we got online last night, I so wanted to cum! The first thing he said was that I could just beg for my CR to continue and save myself the teasing! So did I beg? No way, I was not giving up the chance to cum, even if I knew it might not happen!

So WB teased me, which was both fun and frustrating, but it was not till we had been going for around 90 mins ( 30 of it edging!) I finally gave in and begged for the CR to continue.

You know what he did then??? HE LET ME CUM! Yah! I love not knowing what he is going to do, and he knows it too. I love that he can play with my mind as well as my body. I did feel proud of getting through my CR and would have survived if it had continued.. but oh my.. that cum felt so damn good!

lol Aussie
that sure sounds like something I would do *weg*

[Warbaby1943]

Well, my latest CR was for 6 days and last night WB really put it to the test too! During the day I had to edge for 6 minutes, three times during the day, with both of my magic wands!!!

By the time we got online last night, I so wanted to cum! The first thing he said was that I could just beg for my CR to continue and save myself the teasing! So did I beg? No way, I was not giving up the chance to cum, even if I knew it might not happen!

So WB teased me, which was both fun and frustrating, but it was not till we had been going for around 90 mins ( 30 of it edging!) I finally gave in and begged for the CR to continue.

You know what he did then??? HE LET ME CUM! Yah! I love not knowing what he is going to do, and he knows it too. I love that he can play with my mind as well as my body. I did feel proud of getting through my CR and would have survived if it had continued.. but oh my.. that cum felt so damn good!

I was very proud of you subbie. As usual, you did great but you do great in everything I ask of you. I am spoiled and now expect excellence out of you each time.

[Aussiegirl1]

I was very proud of you subbie. As usual, you did great but you do great in everything I ask of you. I am spoiled and now expect excellence out of you each time.

Thank you Master. I think I am spoilt too.

[Mishka]

I love that he can play with my mind as well as my body.

I like the mental best. But it's wonderful when all put together.