Submissive/Slave Please introduce yourselves here

[submissivewife]

dog_slave and star_catcher77 thank you for introducing yourselves. Hope you enjoy yourself here.

[jennjenn]

hi my name is jenn and im an alcoholic .... wait wrong room....okay i am submissive; however, it has been in the last year that i have accepted this about myself. i always thought that bdsm was NOT for me because i am afraid of whips but have since done a lot of research about the different forms of bdsm =) i love to learn and believe that everyone we meet has something to teach us ... so im excited to learn and teach what i can ... thank you all

[greeneyes]

i'm new to this. i'm in my 30's but consoder myself a virgin in all this. my rl cherry has never been popped in the sun/ dom world.as a good catholic girl i dreamed of punishment for my sins- to be locked away & made to pay for the burning i felt. my real life is quite in the mainstream. i've recently begun to allow myself to feel the pull that i have always had toward the sub life. i'm looking for a strong male sub to explode my fantasies. i still don't know what my boundaries are.

[SheepishJaina]

I suppose I should post. It's certainly been enough time.

I've been lurking around for quite a while *glances at join date*. My Partner and I have been exploring the aspects of BDSM for quite a while. We find it hard to do all of the things we want to do, due to current living situations, and a lack of total privacy. For now we have to be content with keeping most of our activities to the bedroom. We're a newly married couple, and love being able to talk to other folks who share our intrests. It's nice to know that we're not the oddballs the rest of the world might think we are. (Ok, we're odd, in MANY ways, but its all in good fun.)

[lalia]

having caught a fascianation to rubber before age 5, taking up scuba before age 13 , becoming mesmerized by the females who looked AFTER me then too,it was fate.if you read" cardinal of the kremlin" , also like sailing, and hiking and ayhuasca,kooking and living languid taking it in and slowly expanding awareness.

[Aesop]

Welcome lalia.

[Silke]

Hiya lalia and to the forums! Enjoy!

[submissivewife]

lalia hope you enjoy. Thanks for introducing yourself.

[AngieSmith]

Hello my name is angie. I have been serving my mistress for 5 years now, we met in college. I have had 2 mistresses in my life including my current mistress. The first was a cheerleader in high school. Funny that the current one was also a cheerleader. She wants me to study up on how to serve her better. So I am learning here at the forum. Your posts have given me great ideas. Thanks.

[maddie]

I'm Maddie, and I've been experimenting with being a sub for a few years. I'm here for two reasons: 1) I'm looking for ideas about how to get my husband more interested in this and give him ideas of what he can do to me, and 2) to help me feel like I'm not some weird, twisted looney tune, just because I like to be tied up and told what to do on occasion.

Being here for the past few days has already helped. I've been able to bring up a couple of things with my husband that I hadn't thought about or really had the nerve to talk about, which has helped.

[*lil*minx90*]

Hi, I'm Alyssa, I'm 20yrs old. 120 lbs, 5'4" 32D. I've been interested in bdsm as soon as i heard about it.
there aren't many people where I live who are into the life style, so I'm having troubles with that.
I would like help teaching my bf what to do, I've tried.
he doesn't seem to pay attention to the fact that i get really unhappy if I'm not punished every once in a while.
he makes jokes saying I'm insane and weird too. i just don"t know what to think.
I like being tied up, teased, spanked, being forced, dp.

[maddie]

Because it hurts?

I don't mean to sound flippant, but I remember how it hurt when I got my ears pierced. I can't imagine doing that to a part of my body that's more sensitive.

Some people like pain, others don't.

[His_pita]

Because it hurts?

Good answer!!! Hell, I'm a big baby when he brings a clamp near my nipples, let alone a needle. Just not that good of a girl!!

[Qmoq]

Maddie, good luck with it!

I don't know how you could introduce it - perhaps if you see a film where the heroine is tied up, you could give him a hard rub on the inner thigh?

If he's smart, he'd realise what was making you hot (even if it's only pretend), and if you're lucky, he'll be off buying ropes that very day.

Q x

[maddie]

We're going away for the weekend and I'm taking my computer, which has a DVD player and "Secretary". He's smart. He'll get the idea.

It's not so much that he's not interested in this. It's just that I'd like him to be more interested. I'm trying to take it slowly so he doesn't get frustrated.

[pinkpetals23]

Hi, my name is pinkpetals23. I am a 23 year old new sub. I have been actively involved in the lifestyle for about 6 months. I have had one r/l dom whom I cared for very much. I don't know that much, I'll probably be asking more questions than answering, but if anyone does have a question I will try my best to answer it.

[Silke]

Hiya pinkpetals23...thanks for your intro and to the forums! Questions...answers...just jump right into the fun & enjoy!

[submissivewife]

Welcome pinkpetals 23 hope you enjoy...ask any questions you want..

[BBW Submissive]

Hi I am a 35 year old BBW submissive looking for a master to serve. He must be close to me though. I live in Toronto, Ontario Canada. I am not looking for an online or telephone dom I want to meet him in person and have a possible relationship.

[Silke]

Hiya BBW Submissive...you might want to put this up as a Personal since you're looking for a Master. Just let me know if you want me to move your post and I'll be glad to help out - either send me a private message or email on SilkeMod@gmail.com

Silke

[submissivewife]

Actually Silke she has one already there.

Good luck in your search for a Master BBW Submissive. I feel for your plight and hope everything works out for you. Welcome to the forums I hope you continue to enjoy.

subwife

[Silke]

Actually Silke she has one already there.

Darn...really wanted to put all that practice into something useful...use those new gadgets! lol

Ah well...guess you're way ahead of me, BBW Submissive.

[CuriosityKills]

heya...Never been in a D/s relationship but have always found the subject interesting. I'd deffinatley be a sumbissive and me an my boyfriend are currently discussing our relationship as to where we stand with bdsm {its obvious that he dominate our relationship as it is).
so Hi from me.
xx

[Silke]

Hiya and to the forums, CuriosityKills. Good luck for you and your boyfriend.

[CuriosityKills]

Thank you

[submissivewife]

Curiosity hope you enjoy yourself here.

[Weena]

I thought I should properly introduce myself, since I have been poking around alot lately.
My name is Weena, and I have been with my Master/boyfriend Brandon for seven years.
We recently found out that what we were doing actually had a name and there were other people who enjoyed the same things. We have been having fun exploring the other aspects of BDSM that we have found, and so far are enjoying ourselves. A few things we enjoy are... forced orgasm and denial, breath play, large object play, vaginal fisting, rope, clamps, blindfold, restraints, spanking, breast bondage, light humiliation.
I really like this forum and plan on staying here. Everyone is very nice and informative. Thanks for making us newbies feel welcome!

[wingsofanangel]

Well, basically everyone knows me. but I will tell of my submissive history.

I have always been submissive.... really in everyday things. Not really timid or just afraid to speak up, but timid. I have always enjoyed making other people happy in whatever ways I could. Rather that was cleaning the house for my mom or making dinner for my dad if mom couldn't... helping with my sister.. etc....

then I moved when the summer I turned 15.. shortly after I started to role-play characters in chats on AOL... and stuff.. I met a lovely boy there... yes a boy. though he wouldn't be considered that by anything else than his age. We started a greally great story line and slowly bdsm and stuff crept in. I always played a submissive character and stuff but this was a whole new world. Of course I played out some of my emotions.. and then I realized I was a submissive myself... When I was 16 I think.... is when he and I really started to play around with it more R/L.... on-line though. We did talk on the phone and stuff... but anyway.. thats where I got my introduction. I have been a subbie since and wouldn't change it for the world. I know my place in the world... and its on my knees.

Anya

[wingsofanangel]

Welcome! Glad you found someone that really cherishes you and takes care of you. You absolutley deserve it!!!

Anya

[ms2bused]

I am a 31 y.o. corporate attorney, who is 5'0", 103 lbs., having Auburn (Natural) hair and Green eyes! As the male response to my appearance seems to dictate that I am quite femininely attractive, my only fault seems to be in my inability to attract feminine Domme women in the real world! It was only 4 years ago that I passed the Bar Associations' requirements but prior to that, I was the complete, worshipful submissive to a lovely Jewish woman for a period of 7 1/2 years who happened to be 9 years my senior! She intuitively detected my underlying, latent lesbian desires, as well as my deep-seated masochistic tendencies! It took her hardly no real time at all to mold me, and manipulate me to the slavish individual I am still, today! If it had not been that just prior to our intiial meeting, my Grandfather had passed on leaving me a sizeable legacy, I would never ever been able, or capable of totally adhering to her insatiable demands for ONLY the very finest materialistic things that she required of me! She often complimented me on my amazing capacity for pain/suffering at her hands and for the unfathomable ability for rapid-healing. As I was still schooling at that time in my life, she was always cognizant of the fact that I should not carry injury of any type on my face or publicly visible parts of myself! Our sex life was immensely one-sided; i.e. mainly, MY pleasuring HER orally! In the beginning, I thought this to be very unfair, but as fate would have it, it was not long at all until I astoundingly discovered that I was able to reach an orgasm at the same exact moment I was able to bring her to hers without her even as much as caressingly touching me, with the exception that she came to use my ears as handles for her convenience! Sadly, 1 year ago, she left me for a very wealthy man (of all things) and is now married to him! Now all I do is yearn to find a like facsimile of her so that I could again have the best of two worlds; assertive and aggresive in my business life, but the complete opposite after office hours!