Why are so many BDSM girls fat and ugly??

[Master_chris]

I hate this thread. I wish it would go away.

You have to let offer people have they say.

regrading "Fat People" into BDSM first I think it is not fair to say that all body are fat or big bone as I think this rude, as it not nice to point at someone and say, "you are fat" they can't help the way they are made, and hay I think the more and diverse the people are then better off the BDSM will be.

I have found at some of thre bigger people in this world have a more open mind and are willing to try things, like taking a whipping a bit longer or spanked,

mm thinking about it, they might have been pain sluts <giggle>

[wannabeXopsed]

Yes, fat has a connatation that is ugly and cruel. Fat is a fact of life for most of us. Whether it is 10 pounds or 100 most of us are fat and/or overweight by most standards.

It is like saying someone is ugly. I have seen plenty of people that in my opinion were ugly, yet they have a wonderful life with someone that has found them beyond beautiful. On both counts, they can be rude.

Fat and ugly are words that can hurt to the quick. But with all things one has to be strong enough to know themselves that words can't hurt you.

I myself, am a fat woman, and needs lots of attention. I have yet to find it(attention) and while most wouldn't find my pictures and pose's as eroctic, there are those that do, and I think in this community it is far more acceptable. I think it is because we are more open to kinks, and the more open to acceptance.

While there are people who find beastily,scat and other such forms, ugly, we accept them as they are, so a fat woman is also acceptable.

There is a lot of reasons one is fat, not just from eating to much, some are, but there are other reasons too, medical is a huge problem, some from medication taken, some from the diease they may be suffering from, but as was pointed out, fat subs need to have fun and are as sexual as a model is. The same can be said for a fat Dom, he may not be able to use his equipment, but he can be a wonderful caring and enjoyable Master, and has learned how to deal with his/her body mass and be the best there is.

So before you poo poo the idea that a fat girl/guy is unacceptable, the whole package could have been someone that is meant to be yours.

I learned that my body was a useful and even sexy from the ST's and that while my pictures weren't of professional caliber, nor as sexy to even my eyes as some of the others, I was accepted and embraced so I could learn how to perform for my Master when the time comes. But never once was I called ugly, nor fat, there were ways that I was appreciated for my endurance and dedication in learning how to accept my liabilitys.

All (imho) the true Dom/me's are open and non judgemental of the larger than most subs out there.

Ok, so now I feel better, if any of this makes sense. I have wanted to reply on this topic since it was posted in the beginning, but felt a bit shy.

Thanks
T

[Sir Lanceloth]

overweight to me is simply weighing so much that it is unhealthy. So the only reason for me wanting to loose weight is because of my health period... When it comes to sexuality, there is one for ewery person no matter how they look, dress or even sexual orientation (this site is a clear evidence of that), so there really is no reason to argue whether fat is sexual or not. Another proof of this is easy to find, a simple search on google would enable anyone to find many sex sites featuring fat women and men. That being said, for me sexuality has allways been centered around personality, and not body. When i first saw my gf, i didnt even notice how she looked somehow i just knew she was the one for me, and she still is.

as a last note. I find the persons who has shown their pictures on this thread to be wery brave indeed, and i would wish that tourguide would show them to Manwhore so he could see that his lame post didnt scare the beatufull peoble on this site who sent pictures to his own thread.

[bug]

i dislike this thread too....S/someone delete it *laffin*

[ProjectEuropa]

[QUOTE=bug]i dislike this thread too....QUOTE]

I think someone mentioned earlier in the thread that in places this thread has some good discussion points, the real problem with it is the original posting and the title of the thread.

I think the person who wrote the original posting was being provocative or just missing the point of what life is about. He is just exposing his own ignorance and a poverty of appreciation.

If I wasn't so opposed to censorship I would say rename the thread but that would be pandering to the ignorance of the original posting.

[Barton]

The person who started this thread was a butthole. He has been removed for being such and hopefully will never sneak in to post again. The thread however evolved into a good one and that is why it is probably still here.

[alura]

You sir are quite out of your league here.
Size, shape, color....they have nothing to do with love.
Very sad mentality you have there.
True beauty lies within the soul, not the outer walls of skin that house our spirits.

[Kaori-san]

Not true!! I'm into bdsm and I'm thin with long, natural blonde hair thank you! -laughs- I'm not into bdsm because I couldn't get 'normal' sex, but because I like to be dominated, so sorry what you said is not always true!