Submissive/Slave Please introduce yourselves here

[cockslaveboi]

hi, im cockslaveboi or CSB, im a 22year old novice submissive just entering into my first real M/s relationship. my knowledge is preety limited but i have learned a fair bit from these forums already and hope that someday i will be able to offer my own advice.

[Robine]

Hi!

My name is Robine and I am a submissive girl. I gueess I always been a submissive, but it took a while before I understood it. When I was a teenager and talked with others about sex-fantacies, I never said that I wanted to be tied up, stripped and used by several guys. I wasn´t that sort of things a nice girl should dream about. It wasn´t before I met a guy who was into bondage that I begun to explore my fantacies. Some years after we broke up I met a guy who was into slavery and other forms of roleplaying. He had this house in the contryside where we experienced a lot of different forms of sex We never had a real relationship...all we had was sex, and it was great.

Robine

[Rhabbi]

Been a while since I checked this thread, so I will just issue a blanket Hello and to everyone I missed.

[gagged_Louise]

Hi Robine: welcome! That guy with the house in the country sounds like a great way of exploring s/m, even if you didn't have a regular D/s relation. Most people whoare into this have had to fight shame and a "there's something wrong with me" feeling at one time - many years for some. I used to be very unwilling to recognize and explore this as well - but it's good youve grown to accept yourself, and you'll find lots of friends here.

[Robine]

Hi gagged Louise, and thanks for your responde. Have you lived or do you live in a regular d/s relation? I have tried, but I think some parts are better in my fantacy than in real life. For me, these weekends (and sometimes more) in his house at the countryside was enough for me. We explored our dakrest fatacies, wich was great. But I think that the thrill would be gone if we had to meet each other every day. I think that the reason that is was so great, was that the sex was all we had in common.

Robine

[gagged_Louise]

Hello Robine - no, I haven't lived the life of a regular real-life sub, though the kink has been present sometimes in my love relations (I've known since my teens there was a raw fascination with this) and I hope to bring elements of regular surrender, bondage and submission regularly into my steady relations, hope to have that coming. And I have some contact with the r/l bdsm scene. Many people who see themselves as D/s in fact live this actively when they feel they have the time - in the week-ends, or on vacation, but no doubt you know that not all Dom/-me/slave couples look like The Story of O with its unlimited live-in surrender and sexual slavery.
This forum has helped me explore my submission deeper and further in a fun and revealing way, and brought me into online subbing with its array of tasks, scening, exchange of ideas, punishments, trust and better performance as a sub/slave.

And sure, I would agree that some things are great in imagination but may not work well in brute reality (really rough abduction, played out in a non-consensual way, is an example: it's hot, but wouldn't work full on for most of us)

[~*crimson_flower*~]

Well, i'm 18, i'm a sub, new to both the board and relatively, to the lifestyle, having only realised i was sub ten months okay and never having had anyone resembling a Master, just experience with power play/masochism in relationships, but never really found anyone to guide me in the process, so, i thought i'd guide myslef. Come here and research the theory to enhance the actual, so to speak.

[SexySub21]

Hi
I'm a 22yr old female sub. I havent got any major r/l experience except a little with my b/f but he isnt as into it as me. My ideal fantasy is to be Dommed by a woman and this has been my fantasy for ages! I'm very friendly and interested in chatting with anyone who wants to, so just PM me or something! Thanks! xx

[Rhabbi]

Hello SexySub21

[sassykitten]

I wasn't going to post here because I figured I'd already said hi elsewhere, but perhaps I can share more here.

My name is Kelli. I became aware of my submissive desires about a month ago. Initially, I falsely believed that I had "become" a sub. But in the past week and half or so I have begun to realize that, on some level, I have always been a sub.

Another false perception I had in the beginning was that these desires were of a purely sexual nature. That, quite frankly, made me a little uneasy. The more I learn about the lifestyle and myself, the more I realize that what I feel is deeply emotional as well as sexual.

I've been fortunate to find that the few friends I've shared this discovery with, have been immensely helpful, and not at all judgmental. It was through one of these friends that I found my way to this site.

In my reading, I was relieved when I made the observation that so very many of the D/s relationships, it seems to me, are built on a very deep mutual love and sense of trust that the Dom's and sub's share for one another.

I have "played" with a couple of friends, testing the waters, but it's never enough. I am inclined to believe that a primary reason for this is because "playtime" with friends provides no emotional fulfillment; so much of what I feel is a desire to give myself completely to the man that already has my heart. Also, as it has been online play, it really lacks true sexual fulfillment as well.

I am quite certain that there are still holes in my thinking, and I know I still have much to learn. In that line, I've been wondering about this Academy I keep seeing mentioned.

[KoTe]

Hi, I`m Kitten. I`ve been in unextreme BDSM relationship for 3 months and I have strong affection for him. I came here so I can learn more, maybe I can ask advices. I`m a newbie to the active BDSM life, though I had my first BDSM desires when I was 14 (I told him to tie me to the leg of the bed and rape me... But he couldn`t ). I would love to join a BDSM community in person, but here in my country (Bulgaria) there aren`t such things... There is a group of people, but almost all of theme are perverts, who only seek to f*ck some naive girl. Thank you for receiving me in your community.

[Slave Precious]

Greetings all =]

I am Precious; slave to my Master Raziel - we've been in the BDSM lifestyle for well over a year now and have incorporated it into our everyday lives, we don't scene as we're 24/7.

[midi]

Hello Everyone,

I'm midi. I'm in a committed relationship with my best friend in this world. There is nothing better. We were engaged in May!!!! I have been exploring D/s for about 5 years and D and I have been sharing it real life for about 2 years. As our lives are filled with so many other demands right now, we are not able to incorporate it 24/7, but my submission always remains a part of our relationship.

We are surrounded by many vanilla friends and family and are looking forward to new friendships with others who understand our lifestyle choices. Please feel free to say "hello" any time.

[Pony]

Hello, I am pony, I am a Chinese male slave who live in Hong kong, i like BDSM lifestyle, past and this summer, I joined the summer slave camp, the experience can be seenin the MY BDSM lifestyle, usually I trained with my girlfriend, we only served mistress

[innocentsub]

hello i'm innocentsub...i'm a submissive..who happens to still be rather innocent regarding this lifestyle..hence my name..

[Rhabbi]

Nice to see you innocentsub.

[davidnhisgirl]

OK Hi all I am emi 27 y/o female sub to David. We are in a 24/7 - D/s , we are also engaged . I have been in a long distant D/s relationship before and finding that this is alot differant from just phone calls and emails. *grin* I am hoping to learn alot from all you wonderful people.

[Sir_Russell]

Welcome and greetings, yes this is a fine community with a lot of experience so ask your questions

[cbtboyuk]

Hi
i've sort of introduced myself elsewhere - but people seem to be doing it twice (!)
i'm a 35 yr old sub boy in an open but strictly controlled relationship of seven years. My Master is older, wiser and sadly not living with me (yet), though we are married now. Am based in the North West of the UK.

Always glad to talk about my relationship if it helps, and keen to learn from all of you through your experiences. Loveto meet/chat with /get to know people from the Uk and all over - also travel quite extensively to the states and Oz particularly.

Am very excited as Master has lent me to one of His friends to go to the legendary Inferno party near Chicago in sept. gulp. Although to earn the privilege i am strugging through an unprecedented period of chastity! *crying* lol

[emi herself]

Hi all . I made a new name. I was under Davidnhisgirl, and Daddy let me make my own account *go me!*

So I just wanted to say hi!

[Rhabbi]

Hi all . I made a new name. I was under Davidnhisgirl, and Daddy let me make my own account *go me!*

So I just wanted to say hi!

Hello again emi

[gagged_Louise]

welcome emi!

[zasvig]

im new to all of this im a 28 year old sub my wife is my misstress but is also new so i dont feel that i get the punishment i deserve. and i just found this cummunaty its nice to find a place like this. i guss i dont really have any Q's exept maby how to get my misstress to be more of a dom

[zasvig]

ops i forgot im Eric

[q8yslave]

hi

my name is q8yslave , , i am 21 yrs male slave from kuwait, and i dont have any owner yet and actually i didnot used to have, from my deep inside i feel that i was born for one reason which is ( to be a reall slave/server for a strong female) i totally new on this sit so i dont have expriense, , but i will gain it becouse i love it,,,
when my owner get me i will always ask my self ( how to get my misters happy from me)

[mihara]

Hi I am mihara and I am an 18 yr old bisexual female submissive in the USA. I am new to the board and to the BDSM lifestyle so I don't have really any experience and right now am learning the ropes so to speak. My fantasy (which I would like to become a reality) is to be dominated by both a man and woman.

[Ozme52]

Hi I am mihara and I am an 18 yr old bisexual female submissive in the USA. I am new to the board and to the BDSM lifestyle so I don't have really any experience and right now am learning the ropes so to speak. My fantasy (which I would like to become a reality) is to be dominated by both a man and woman.

May all your fantasies come true!!

[good_girl]

Hello, I'm new-explorer, and I guess it would be obvious by my name that this is all new to me...or is it?

In past relationships I had always felt that something was missing, and I always blamed myself for it, I felt that I wasn't good enough, always tried to do better. I have come to realise now that I was just never with someone who could accept what I was offering, can't really blame them...I didn't know what I was offering either.

About a year and a half ago I ended a 13 year relationship and began MY life, I started talking to people and looking at things on-line, about 6 months ago a light bulb came on for me and I realised that I am submissive.

In the last several months I have talked to anyone who could offer me any kind of guidance in learning more about myself, I have become so much more secure in myself than I have ever been, although I still feel I have a long way to go.

I very recently met someone who is at about the same place as I am, he has recently discovered that he is interested in exploring his dominant side. I guess at this point I am just wanting to learn as much as I possibly can, and hope that the bond that has already begun to form for us grows to something I can't yet even imagine.

Any guidance and suggestions are welcome as my eyes are getting square from looking at this monitor.

[fallenstar]

ok, i'm fallenstar, or just Mel, i'm a submissive and quite new to the scene. i've just recently began my first dominant/sub relationship with my best friend once we noticed the feelings were there. i look forward to learning more.

[waterlily]

I'm an NYC newbie - a woman and (obviously) a sub. (Hi y'all!) I've been reading like crazy but have yet to actually RT anything, although I will be checking out the local BDSM group... as soon as I get a damn night free! I'm pretty busy working with an anti-Bush group. He's been keeping us pretty busy for the last few years and, I must say, the fact that he's keeping me from having my BDSM fun is yet another mark against him

Anyway, looking forward to chatting with everyone here.

-lily