My thoughts...

[redEva]

How far is too far? If I was the confidant …

It is interesting thought. I think it all depends on the personal limits, and while it sounds fun and edgy “Do not interfere!” and I would not, as long as I did not perceive actions as life threatening or permanently damaging! But than, permanent damage does not have to be necessarily physical, and while I would not stop gang rape or bestiality - would my friend be damaged for life by the experience of that sort?

[pop_54]

If that's what she wants, why not let her have it... I'm an old git and in my years of swinging, cuckholding, and playing very close to the edge, often over the edge, I've seen it many times in reality, and in my experience, most times it has little or no detrimental effect on the shall we call her/him 'victim'... Any person who has the foresight to instruct friends not to interfere whatever happens... wants it to happen, they crave something out of the ordinary but are half afraid to do it, so they deliberately put themselves in danger to force themselves into it, and they tell friends and family... "Don't stop it, I want it".

I have experienced this with my own darling horny slutty wife bless her... "Paul, I'm in the mood to play heavy dirty tonight, if I get a bit drunk and go over the top, please darling, don't interfere, let me play", sounds very familiar to me prior to a swing orgy... and believe me I've had to endure some humiliation with her flirting and teasing all the spare guys until they lose it and drag her off somewhere out of my sight, well lead her off, she doesn't need dragging Then the guys return one at a time grinning and still fastening their trousers, damn that makes me so fucking hard I could cum in my pants knowing they've just fucked my wife some place outside the room Then she returns all dishevled and flustered after the last of the guys have finished with her and returned before her... Seen her take off with as many as 6 to 8 guys like that and not return for an hour or more all sore and bruised from her wild sexual ordeal... Damn that woman takes some punishment sometimes and soaks it all up with ease... I'll sort you all some pics of the slutty cow and her flirting ways if any of you are interested.

Worse I ever saw in this 'going over the top' category was many years back, a young woman, only about 23 she was, at a fuction, she was very drunk and flirting her way to trouble, not least because she was just 6 months into married life and her poor hubby was elsewhere unkowing of his young wife's indiscretions... One of her friends tried to step in and calm the young woman as it looked like getting out of hand, many men were eyeing the girl up at that time, and the friend feared it was about to turn very hot and horny for the girl... the friend was told to, "fuck off, I know what I'm doing, I'm in control".

To cut to the chase as it were, a little later the girl vanished from the main function hall to a side room with two guys, who she willingly got into a threesome with... but when they'd finished with her, they just left her half naked and half drunk in the side room rather than escorting her back into the hall, and the fun really started... Over the next 2 hours she was gang raped by virtually every guy at the function, the wives were cheering them on, if memory serves me, I'd guess 12 to 15 blokes had her, some going in for seconds... when it was over she couldn't walk and had to be carried out of the hall to be taken home, I noticed blood smeared on her inner legs as they half dragged half carried her through the hall to the exit, it was that bad... I feared for her at times while it was going on, as did a number of people, but no one stepped in, she'd said she knew what she was doing, so we kept out of it and just enjoyed the show... My girlfriend of the time balked at the idea of me shagging the girl so I didn't get involved physically, had I been there alone I probably would have had a turn with her... But I certainly joined the crowd at the door to the side room and watched her getting it a number of times during episode... There was no trouble over it, she didn't cry rape next day, and she actually did it again a few months later, although i only heard of that second event, I wasn't there at that party.

[redEva]

Thank you for that recount pop, and I am sure everyone would enjoy your photographic contributions (drop it in the picture section ).

I loved your recollection of swinging events - wonderful - but I can not help but feel you got bit short-changed?!

As for the function - while definitely hot’n’horny event - IMO not good career move, and I can not help but wonder about her marriage. Would I have interfered, if I was the friend in question? Most likely to the same extent that the concerned lady did, and after being told off like that (unless I knew the person much, much better, and knew that they will regret it next day) I would join the crowd.

It is fine like one walks here, I did things I have regretted afterwards if I had too much (to drink) at the party. I never regretted much worse things that I did while not under the influence.

[pop_54]

Thank you for that recount pop, and I am sure everyone would enjoy your photographic contributions (drop it in the picture section ).

I loved your recollection of swinging events - wonderful - but I can not help but feel you got bit short-changed?!

As for the function - while definitely hot’n’horny event - IMO not good career move, and I can not help but wonder about her marriage. Would I have interfered, if I was the friend in question? Most likely to the same extent that the concerned lady did, and after being told off like that (unless I knew the person much, much better, and knew that they will regret it next day) I would join the crowd.

It is fine like one walks here, I did things I have regretted afterwards if I had too much at the party. I never regretted much worse things that I did while not under the influence.

Hi Eva

Yes I'll possibly tell a couple of picture stories over on the pic post, nothing too naughty folks don't get excited I don't have loads of nude shots of the wife, we're small town swingers not porn stars But I have hundreds of photo's of her as she is in real life, clothed, but flirting her way to sexual gratification with other men at parties and the like... One of my favourite passtimes taking record pics of my darling slutty wife as she performs her art... well you never know when blackmail might come in useful Ok guilty, it gives me a hard-on brousing her slut life that way later and remembering her naughty behaviour with the aid of images.

Don't frett dear, I've never been short changed, I've always had my fair share of the swing fun, both with extramarital affairs of my own, and having my voyeuristic bent satisfied seeing Julie play the games... Like most swing guys, I get as much pleasure from her cheating with other men as she does, and I just love a loose sloppy well fucked hole to play with when they've finished with her, preferably cream filled

As for the young girl at the party, I often wondered how she squared it with her hubby, hell the state she was in he must have been able to tell she'd been done sexually... I seem to remember maybe he was away for several days with work, so perhaps he never found out, can't say for certain though, we are talking back in about 1972, and although I remember the wild event that night, to be honest I can't even remember her name now, Karen, Carol, something along those lines, not that it matters... I didn't know her all that well, I knew who she was and a bit about her, but she wasn't a regular friend of mine socially... As I said, I was told on good authority she did it again a while later at a house party, mate of mine said she wound up in a bedroom being fucked rotten by all the guys in turn again, so she must have meant it when she told her friend that she had it under control... She was certainly being raped that night I saw the event though, or giving a damn good immpression... As I said I watched her getting it for a while a few times, the first couple of times I attended the show she was being held down on a sofa by one guy, and she was trying to struggle and crying out, while she was being pounded quite hard by another guy... Later she was out of it and didn't need holding, last time I looked after she'd been done about 15 times I think she was just flopping about like a rag doll as the guys fucked it into her.

Yes a fine line to tread, and like you I've never regretted anything, felt a little guilt at times or maybe concern, but no regrets later, too late, what's done is done.

[sexysublady]

Hi Pop!

I am Angela, 25. I am married for almost 6 years now, and I want to tell you that it is not unusual at all for a girl to say something like "Whatever happens, please stay out of it" and then flirt her way into a trouble, sometimes a lot of trouble.
I myself started fantasising about BDSm after my first real rape experience when I was 15 - I was with 4 boys then. Second time I was in college, and was raped alone with my best female friend, by 5 boys. I was surprised how easily I accepted that, I was almost "waiting" for it to happen. In a month we had a serious talk with that female friend, and... we decided to do it again... We finally implemented it when I have already been married, and my husband was on his business trip for a few weeks. Her and I went to the other part of our city, and started chatting with a group of teen boys who were playing soccer. We deliberately flirted and teased them, and finally they invited us to their place. There we started "playing prudes". But there was no going back: there were 12 of them, and 2 of us. And we were in their place, nobody knew we were there, and nobody could hear us, so these teen boys could do absolutely anything they wanted to us... We spent 14 hours in their place. After that, we could barely walk - it was really extreme experience... But... we would like to do something like this again. The only thing is that this female friend of mine moved out, and now it's harder to coordinate my husband being out and her being in... So, just to sum up, this sort of behavior is not unusual for women, even married ones.
If this topic interests you, we can discuss it further. Since this topic doesn't seem to rise much interest in here anymore, you can write me at graduatestudent26@yahoo.com

Angela