POP Ok there's your chat room cherry. and your bdsmlibrary cherry! Truly, welcome, this isan amazing place. Follow your gut re: chatting with people, read read read the forums, and if you are ready, look into the tasking society on the forums. It's well worth the chance to try out many different things in private, at the behest of an experienced master, and to reflect and learn what you like and what you don't like. It will take a few weeks to get accepted and see the sub-forum but once you do, it is worth it. I've just been accepted and JUST did my first task. Haven't written about it yet. I will. So, anyway, welcome again. Feel free to add me as a friend, I'm rarely on, but I do check if I have messages every day. Brave to come here.