When you are strong willed and like to take control yourself, it's surprising to find that not all men are the same. I know that it's entirely normal and that there is no reason why men shouldn't be submissive any more than women should be but I guess I was just a bit slow on the uptake and it's normal for us all to think that the rest of the world is cast in our own shape. Why on earth the whole world of female domination, the Miss-Whiplash-Dominatrix scene hadn't sunk in to me earlier, I just don't know. It was rammed firmly home the first time I visited one of the London S/M clubs though and I found it very entertaining to watch sissy boys being treated with contempt by the Dommes there.