I follow strict rules of conduct and safe consensual play.
A Bit About Yourself:
Looking at me in a supermarket or cafe you would never know of my proclivities. I hold a job, dress normally, and by all social standards outwardly appear as a responsible member of society. Which, for the most part, I really am. However, politically I'm somewhat of a radical, I enjoy deviant and modern art, and, of course, I'm here - so you know that a life of missionary position in a dark room, and only when God calls for it, isn't going to satisfy.
I'm interested in both intellectual and visceral aspects of D/s play. There is the difficult task of organizing a scene tailored to the fantasies of a partner, while also diverging from script to engender cravings, surprise, sexual tension, and some fear - prior to that eventual release. This is the intellectual challenge. But then, like all sex, there is the visceral aspect to the game. Those electrical feelings of charge and excitement from ever changing circumstances during play and the very animalist aspect of it all.
It's quite the rush, isn't it?
I'm interested in both intellectual and visceral aspects of D/s play. There is the difficult task of organizing a scene tailored to the fantasies of a partner, while also diverging from script to engender cravings, surprise, sexual tension, and some fear - prior to that eventual release. This is the intellectual challenge. But then, like all sex, there is the visceral aspect to the game. Those electrical feelings of charge and excitement from ever changing circumstances during play and the very animalist aspect of it all.
It's quite the rush, isn't it?
D/s role play; binding in all its many forms; judicious use of toys; tickling; oils and other slippery means; humiliation both outside and inside; exploration of subtle pain and pleasure thresholds; the crafting of fantasy like it's a screenplay pulled out of thin air on the spot.
Denial, denial, denial - then reward!
Vanilla Interests:
In real life I'm a manger, a home owner, and responsible and hard working. I take night classes to broaden my scope of knowledge. I read both trash and classics. I enjoy both costume dramas and space ships, but don't like space ship costume dramas.