Arria,

IMHO, these are the wisest words stated in this thread in answer to creamy's question.

thank you.


Quote Originally Posted by Arria View Post
Listen to your gut feeling. The fact that you posted this question already shows you think this guy is troublesome.

I also assume he is a control freak. If a grown-up person has that sort of psychological disorder, run as fast as you can... you cannot help him anyway, he would have to seek professional help.

This sort of guy will only make you unhappy. As it is not possible to control a person´s every move unless you poke out his eyes and tie him down in your basement behind a locked door, the control behavior will get ever worse.
This kind of person tends to be physically abusive as well! Mind that! It is a hellish circle - the more he checks on you, the more you need to get away, but that in turn makes him get only more possessive. Correction/amateur help is not possible. RUN.
(Besides: Do not try to explain it to him in much detail, he will only believe there is another guy / your evil friends behind your decision. Such guys do not do you the honour of realizing that you have a mind of your own, and such guys NEVER consider the possibility that their own behaviour might be the cause of the problem...
in case you wonder, YES, I had such a guy once as well, and am glad that I managed to get rid of him.)

Kind regards
Arria