What do you do when you log into his chatroom,and even if he is not there everyone tells him what you talked about and or did.And when he is not there he has ppl watching your every move.Or he calls you 3-4 times a day just to see if your doing what you said you were doing.And when he im's you all the time asking you what you doing now.I can say for me I don't like that very much at all it makes me crazy.I find it hard to be with him in his chatroom cause of this so I don't go in there very much unless he tells me too.And he has even told me I am to not cut my hair ever again and or color it.For me I feel like this yes I am a sub but I still have my own mind and should be able to make my own choices.
For me when I am with him in person I am finding it to be hard due to the fact that if I talk with another person he gets upset.So I am trying to find some sort of balance,but so far there is none.