Humilation Debate

[Ozme52]

So... is it only a turn-on if privately uttered or better if someone might/can overhear?

[phantasy_seeker]

So... is it only a turn-on if privately uttered or better if someone might/can overhear?

I would say both, although in public some degree of subtlety would be called for.

[Hime]

I definitely enjoy being humiliated and degraded... the fallback punishment that I've had to go through a lot of lately is wearing a padded bra with silicone inserts that add up to 2 or 3 cup sizes difference (I'm naturally a D, and no, I'm not wearing it in my avatar picture -- that's all me). He has me try on different outfits over it and picks out which one shows me off the best before we go out. I feel humiliated when I have to wear it in public, especially in front of friends, because it makes me feel like I have to compensate for not being good enough, and because it draws people's attention to my sexuality and sometimes (with a low-cut blouse) makes me look pretty slutty, which he of course loves. I definitely get squirmy wearing it in public, but when he takes me home and fucks me while I'm still strapped into it (he calls it my "harness"), the feeling of his fingers digging in to my big, round, fake tits sends me over the edge.

I'm the kind of person who will go to great lengths to avoid embarassment most of the time, so being able to give in and experience something that I've spent a lot of energy worrying about is wonderfully liberating for me.