Do you ever feel this is too good to be true?

[TomOfSweden]

That is our own insecurity talking, an issue I actually addressed with Mishka.

Here is what I said then, and firmly believe.

hmm....Maybe not so much insecurity as just plain projection onto my slave. It's more like, I would never put up with being treated the way I treat my slave be, let's say my boss or a girlfriend. More like, "How can she put up with all my bullshit"?

And besides most women wouldn't put up with having a Master and most of my friends are non-BDSM people. Their view of the world off-course sneaks it's way into mine. Each time I hear my friends whining about problems with their girlfriends, I'm usually thinking, "you really love it don't you, you suby slut" or "but just fucking break up then and get a woman who likes to obey you".

Having fears of being abandoned by my slave, I only think is human. If we love we can also lose what we love.

Yesterday I atended a salsa course with my slave and I assaulted her lip with my nose. ha ha ha. How's that for un-perfection? My defence is that it was my first time ever dancing salsa. But I didn't step on anybodies toes!!!

[butterflySlave4u]

hmm....Maybe not so much insecurity as just plain projection onto my slave. It's more like, I would never put up with being treated the way I treat my slave be, let's say my boss or a girlfriend. More like, "How can she put up with all my bullshit"?

And besides most women wouldn't put up with having a Master........

Having fears of being abandoned by my slave, I only think is human. If we love we can also lose what we love.

As for myself, the act of being kept, collared or owned, is what FUELS the relationship...it was once said (very wisely, I might add) that women give sex to get love, and men give love to obtain sex...MY Master DOES give me what I need. physically, emotionally...and in return he gets whatever he wants, wholly and unconditionally...and also my undying loyalty, as, in MY mind, he's earned it...