Honey It is just my opinion, but I would say RUN as fast as you can. He doesn't sound so much like a Dom as like a control freak.

I think this is dangerous. And don;t apologize by saying "Well, I am a sub so I should expect this," No you are a person who happens to like to be submissive. It does NOT mean you turn your life totally over to someone.

Again my opinion only, but I would say this is NOT a good thing.