Quote Originally Posted by Whippett View Post
The question, in my estimation, is a valid one. minx obviously has an issue of unpaid costs from someone, and has tried to contact the person. Seems to me, asking for advice when the matter isn't resolved, and the debtor is not answering is a perfectly valid thing to bring up.
I'm not disagreeing that the question of what to do. On the contrary it is a very valid question and I have no problem with that being posted here. And I hope she received some useful ideas on the topic.

What I AM questioning is the one statement which was highlighted. She just as easily could have asked the question and responded to the answers without airing the personal matters of her private relationship. That is also the point that I start questioning her honor.

We are human, we will view anything from our own perspective but there are always 3 sides to any story... her view point, his view point, and what really happened. Her way of posting about private matters in the relationship, in a round about way, as though almost no one knows who he is, I see as underhanded and backstabbing. So, imo, neither behavior is exactly stellar there. I am an adult and will draw my own conclusions about people based on the behavior they represent.

And trust me... I don't go looking for these threads, after all, that post was about 15 or so posts in and needless to say, up until that comment I felt the thread was very useful, then she made it a personal issue and not just a "what do I do?" question issue.

I won't be back to this thread though I assure you... so feel free to lambaste me as much as you want for having an opinion that isn't going to immediately sympathize with someone who is trying to cause trouble over a personal matter.