I, too, believe minx is entitled to air her problems and ask for advice on this forum. Some people may not agree that she should have posted this particular thread, and they're entitled to that too.

Many dominants take pride in being 'honorable' and are fond of talking about this quality in themselves. The fact that some people here believe they may know the identity of said dominant is immaterial. The facts are that no specific or personal details have been revealed and, as it's already been stated, minx has been rather vague about the facts.

While this obviously isn't a problem exclusive to bdsmers, a dominant will often hold a submissive under a certain amount of duress, so it is a rather interesting topic to discuss regardless of minx's unfortunate situation.

(And, it's too bad Marco the naked dancer isn't still around, he could have given us a full page legal essay on this. *ss*)