Quote Originally Posted by Whippett View Post
Interesting comments annie. So it's not permissible, in your book, to ask for advice if the person involved is known to the questioner? If that's the case we may as well all stop posting.

The question, in my estimation, is a valid one. minx obviously has an issue of unpaid costs from someone, and has tried to contact the person. Seems to me, asking for advice when the matter isn't resolved, and the debtor is not answering is a perfectly valid thing to bring up.

Questioning minx's honour strikes me as a bit below the belt. It is obvious that she has been treated without honour if a debt is owed, payment promised and not delivered. The lack of honour here rests solely on the shoulders of the 'master' who abused trust.

If this matter bothers you so much, perhaps you should just refrain from reading about it.
The only reason I would see it as lacking class is that it is all one-sided isn't it? We don't know at all if he does or does not owe her money. So it all just looks like an attack on another individual

Alex is right - we all should be allowed to air our problems to get advice and try to see different perspectives - I agree, but when it's singularly put to direct innuendo at another, it's in bad form in my opinion

Granted, I don't know or haven't talked with either of them, I just saw it in bad taste - it could have been posted without the accusation toward another on here is all, as well as it's not her first time trying to, what looks like, poke pins vs trying to actually seek help

Suggesting we shouldn't read it if we don't like it, is of no help at all lol - it's what we do here, read and how do we know if we do or don't like it until we read it