Quote Originally Posted by Silke
Hmm, really an interesting subject. In my opinion it all depends on what everyone can justify for him/herself. As soon as I'd get a bad conscience I'd stop or talk it over with all parties involved. But up to that point I think all is fair. And that point is probably determined by what the basic values of me and my partner are...

Just me and my world.
Hi Silke,

I think that is why I have chosen to stop, at least that is my decision at this time. I really couldn't voluntarily talk it over with my wife. As I said elsewhere, at least IMO, I think sometimes some things are better left unsaid. Especially if you know it will cause hurt feelings. It might also save me having to buy some new jewelery.