My husband and I went away for the weekend and, during the drive out of town on Friday, I told him about y'all and we had a long talk about what I can and can't do here. I told him that I never wanted him to feel like I was hiding something from him, but that I also didn't think I'd done anything here to feel guilty about or concerned about.

Basically, we set up boundaries and he gets to see what's going on here now and then. It was hard to bring this up, because I honestly wasn't sure what his reaction would be, but he's fine with it, so long as I don't cross any lines we've established.

I think I would have had a problem keeping this a secret from him. Again, I haven't and didn't expect to post anything here that I thought would be a problem, but it just felt wrong to keep it from him. He doesn't know about everything I do online, nor do I know all of the places he visits, but something of this nature needs to be out in the open. Honesty is so key to a functional relationship and I actually feel a lot more comfortable about posting here now that he knows about it.