Quote Originally Posted by Matt 5:28-29 (NIV) [Jesus:
"But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
Maybe the kind of sex warbaby is referring to in his original post is on only adultery if you’re a theist, or more specifically a Christian?

I was interested to read karin{ID}'s response. Certainly a pious person may consider karin's situation, a "contolled semi-open marriage", to be adulterous. However, it's interesting to note that, the word adultery is actually derived from the Latin word aulderium meaning to debase by adding something inferior. So if a third person actually enhances your relationship, is it really still adulterous?