victims of abuse support for submissives

[Trina]

Quote, Stripedangel: "i remember every scathing word, and it rolls through my mind all on it's own. i have no control over my thoughts in this respect, it just creeps in and snatches me."

Yes, my ex of seven years... I can just hear him telling me I wasn't good enough for him even though he loved me. Do they take some kind of training to be cruel?

[gemmy]

Yes, my ex of seven years... I can just hear him telling me I wasn't good enough for him even though he loved me. Do they take some kind of training to be cruel?

No, they see the 'victim' stamp

remove it *s*

There is 'healthy' and unhealthy submission, for me, I truly was a victim; ashamed completely of this 'thing' i felt. People will use it as long as you 'let' them.

Embracing your submission will help you find 'healthy' submission; ignoring it only helps you dig a very bad deep ditch of attracting bad people who only choose to use it against you.