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[sardis]

Would an experienced, wise sub make a good mentor for a Dom ?

[TomOfSweden]

Would an experienced, wise sub make a good mentor for a Dom ?

I think any wise and experienced practitioner would be great at seeing their actions from their sex partners point of view. I think its a pre-requisite to wear the "wise" or the "experienced" badge.

[sardis]

ToS: Interesting thought. If I have come this far without practicing D/s is it really a need ... or just a want ?

Could I have this need repressed for so long ? Or have I now progressed to self actualisation and moved beyond the regression into D-needs ? (after divorce).


How much do you need to want something for it to be a need ?

Is chocolate a need ?