Ways to relax while playing

[bambina]

All good advice. I may see him again next week. perhaps I can practice by myself until then. Vanilla sex? How Queer :P.

Naah I'm kidding. I think, after practicing a week, I'll try vanilla sex with him and we'll go slow. I'll put my fantasy on hold.I feel bad for him though. No sex because of me?

[orchidsoul]

All good advice. I may see him again next week. perhaps I can practice by myself until then. Vanilla sex? How Queer :P.

haha! I know- it felt funny saying it... but I do think 'vanilla' sex gets a bad wrap...
there's nothing 'vanilla' about my (and most peoples) non d/s encounters.

Don't feel bad. All good things are worth waiting for.