How do you "look" for a Dom?

[good_girl]

I'm in total agreement with you re CM; however, there have been some success stories. *counts on one hand* lol And from what I understand about Alt.com - they are money grubbers - not the people, but the site.

*wonders if I'm a finger or the thumb* I guess I'm one of the lucky ones, my Master found me on collarme, of course that was after many, many messages from trolls.

I'm not one to approach anyone, more like just putting myself out there and waiting to be found, lucky for me it worked

Sir and I had a conversation about this just the other night, it would seem (like we don't already know this ) that men in general get frustrated at the fact that they are expected to make the first move/first contact. I think each one of us has our own reasons for this, but if we could push ourselves, at least on occasion, to make that first contact I do believe that there are still many good available Dom's out there...they just need to be found

Good luck weeding through the trolls

[Flaming_Redhead]

Sir and I had a conversation about this just the other night, it would seem (like we don't already know this ) that men in general get frustrated at the fact that they are expected to make the first move/first contact. I think each one of us has our own reasons for this, but if we could push ourselves, at least on occasion, to make that first contact I do believe that there are still many good available Dom's out there...they just need to be found

The guys need to get over it, especially when looking for a submissive female! It seems rather contradictory, to me, for someone who is supposedly submissive to be making the first move. Then, you have the problem of wanting a submissive female who is a lady in the street but a freak in the bed. Ladies do not "chase" gentlemen. I'm sorry, guys, but you can't have it both ways.

Oh, I almost forgot! You also have the Old School...where submissives do not speak to a dominant unless they are spoken to.