How do you "look" for a Dom?

[Flaming_Redhead]

Sir and I had a conversation about this just the other night, it would seem (like we don't already know this ) that men in general get frustrated at the fact that they are expected to make the first move/first contact. I think each one of us has our own reasons for this, but if we could push ourselves, at least on occasion, to make that first contact I do believe that there are still many good available Dom's out there...they just need to be found

The guys need to get over it, especially when looking for a submissive female! It seems rather contradictory, to me, for someone who is supposedly submissive to be making the first move. Then, you have the problem of wanting a submissive female who is a lady in the street but a freak in the bed. Ladies do not "chase" gentlemen. I'm sorry, guys, but you can't have it both ways.

Oh, I almost forgot! You also have the Old School...where submissives do not speak to a dominant unless they are spoken to.