I have always considered myself a strong, independent woman, not one to need a man but one to want one in my life. I can survive quite well on my own. I am also the more dominant type at work, it doesn't matter if my co-workers are happy with me, what matters is the job gets done right. What has always mattered to me is that my partner is happy with me and I will always do my best to make sure that happens.

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So when i find that special someone that i trust above all others and turn the control that i hold onto so tightly over to Him, can you imagine how very special that is??? And to be honest, after assuming all that responsibility day in and day out........how lovely would it be to let someone else shoulder some of that? To me, being a strong, independant woman does not negate your submissiveness.........it simply makes it that much more special and something to be truly treasured by the One that is lucky enough to earn it *smiles*