The importance of consistency

[tessa]

Since I'm at it...and 'cause I'm not near as nice as jeanne...

While it is about consistency, it's also about having a modicum of respect for another's feelings. That's obviously above the level at which some useless beings operate.

Oh, and here's a thought. If there are those people who have ever been inconsistent in any of the ways mentioned, and have done so intentionally because of their inability to nut up and deal with the matter in a mature and direct way, and furthermore, intend to be inconsistent in the future due to such feebleness, then how about they stop using the term "Dominant". Seriously.

[DowntownAmber]

If there are those people who have ever been inconsistent in any of the ways mentioned, and have done so intentionally because of their inability to nut up and deal with the matter in a mature and direct way, and furthermore, intend to be inconsistent in the future due to such feebleness, then how about they stop using the term "Dominant". Seriously.

Or stop using the term "submissive." If you're intentionally being inconsistent, intentionally avoiding dealing with a matter, and intend to continue on that path then it doesn't matter if you're a Dom/me or sub, you're being dishonest.

Everyone is allowed to feel their way through new territory and to figure out boundaries and what works for them and their partner, however, once you throw the word "intentional" in there, inconsistency begins to reek of simple dishonesty.

[jeanne]

Since I'm at it...and 'cause I'm not near as nice as jeanne...

While it is about consistency, it's also about having a modicum of respect for another's feelings. That's obviously above the level at which some useless beings operate.

Oh, and here's a thought. If there are those people who have ever been inconsistent in any of the ways mentioned, and have done so intentionally because of their inability to nut up and deal with the matter in a mature and direct way, and furthermore, intend to be inconsistent in the future due to such feebleness, then how about they stop using the term "Dominant". Seriously.

Could there be any doubt about why I love you, chickie? ~big ole hug~