how to spot an arsehole

[lucy]

Isn't exactly on-topic, but it's a sign you're talking with the wrong guy: If you're chatting with someone and you just know that he's at the same time having conversations with at least 3 other people.
Back when i still was interested a wee little tiny bit in getting to know Doms for more than just chatting, one even called me the wrong name once. Probably got all his chat-windows mixed up
At least i knew that i didn't need to bother with that guy anymore.

[Ozme52]

Isn't exactly on-topic, but it's a sign you're talking with the wrong guy: If you're chatting with someone and you just know that he's at the same time having conversations with at least 3 other people.
Back when i still was interested a wee little tiny bit in getting to know Doms for more than just chatting, one even called me the wrong name once. Probably got all his chat-windows mixed up
At least i knew that i didn't need to bother with that guy anymore.

I have no experience chatting with doms, but don't think subs don't do this and do it a lot. Only instead of talking to other doms, they chat it up among themselves.

So... I don't think this particular trait is an indicator of bad behavior as much as it's a sign of the times. People take cell calls at dinner functions, and have no qualms about interupting a face to face conversation to take a call.

But I do think, when flirting, one should have my full undivided attention... as I expect to have yours.