To me submission is not 'giving up my will'. It is 'aligning my will with the will of my Dom'. In other words, what He wants, I then want. What He needs, I then need to provide. I merge my will with His.
YES!!! that is submission in a nutshell. my girl is the same way. Oz and I are lucky men!
Lucky? Perhaps, but as I've said elsewhere, I like to think I have a good eye and make good choices.
I'm sure you realize it takes more than mere luck.
And then there's all the training...
Mere luck ?!?!
is there such a thing? providence has given us a gift. I know as well as you to that no amount of training ( or outright beating) can make a good sub. it is in the blood or it's not.