Online Vs Real Life

[nighttimestar]

I've noticed that many of the people in the scene I've met online as well as some in real life have online Master/Mistresses. Am I missing out on something? The question is as a dom, I love the touch of leather in my hand, feeling my sub quiver as they feel cold steel imprison their body. I don't understand how I could ever receive as much from having an online sub, nor how the sub could receive as much from me. So without trying to make this a complaint festival, maybe some of you could impart your online experience and how you deal with an online sub. Thanks in advance

I am going to to put my 2 cent in first.... Ideally I would love to find a something in the Real Life... The troubles i run in too is on how to meet people that share you interests, in a Respectful, way that is very non confrontational Setting and relaxing.

Then Online. See if you have the same interests, chat for a bit nothing to personal "coke or pepsi" "Tribune or Sun". and then eventually meet up in a safe place. And get to know to some more and a little deeper about each other
Once each is comfortable then play.

I am not a fan of online playing. Its just one dimensional for me. i rather feel, hear the snap of the whip then read *snap* on a computer screen

NTS~~

[jeanne]

He's a green wizard... completely harmless... most of the time, at least *eyes jeanne*...

Oh yes. Completely harmless.

~waiting for lightning to strike me~

As T always says, "eating chocolate ice cream makes you hate it if you eat it every single day."

What is wrong with that man? Hate chocolate ice cream? Maybe if I ate it for every meal....nah. I'd still love it.

All the rest though - I agree.

i rather feel, hear the snap of the whip then read *snap* on a computer screen

Ditto.