wresting control back in the heat of passion

[Ozme52]

Perhaps it's the struggle and control isn't the point, but who is taking it from you.

Forcing you to submit.

The question is, how do you make your partner recognize when he needs to step it up a notch. Does he know he's participating in a contest or are you just trying to submit for your own pleasure?

[thir]

or are you just trying to submit for your own pleasure?

I lost you here?
Isn't any sub????

[skittish doe]

Does he know he's participating in a contest or are you just trying to submit for your own pleasure?

No, he doesn't necessarily know. and yes, it is for my own pleasure, Sir.