Begging

[Jennifer Williams]

It's the knowledge that in that moment you have total, complete control. There is nothing like the surge of power you feel when they say "please...", knowing that whether they get whatever it is is solely up to you, and that they have no say about it. Great, now you've made me all hot and I was trying to go to bed.

[chuck]

It's the knowledge that in that moment you have total, complete control. There is nothing like the surge of power you feel when they say "please...", knowing that whether they get whatever it is is solely up to you, and that they have no say about it.

What makes that really hot is when the dominant is strong enough to say 'no' even when, or particularly when, the submissive really wants, needs, and/or expects a 'yes.'

If the dominant consistently grants the request, then the begging is little more than a humble request for something the submissive feels entitled to. If the dominant consistently withholds the request, then the begging becomes a rote exercise of humility. When the submissive is not sure if the dominant will grant the request or not, that's when the begging and the power become real.