Anal Play Enjoyment

[Reveler]

Hi there!

Brand new to the site completely but this thread caught my eye...

I have been trying to work a little anal play into my regiment and have found it a little hard to do, maybe you could give me some advice.

When I tried the "throbbing cock" it was one of the most painful experiences ever, and not the fun kind, but when I have tried alone with a toy or something I have found it more doable.

I want the pain, but I want pleasure too...any toys or techniques or personal experiences you would recommend?

[nawteeone]

I want the pain, but I want pleasure too...any toys or techniques or personal experiences you would recommend?

I find that having a plug in first helps twofold: It gets the area ready, and just having something in my ass makes me very, very wet. The more aroused I am, the more relaxed I will be when something of more substance works its way in.

OMG. I never, ever thought that having something in my ass would feel even better than regular old sex. But I crave it now....and I swear I would be more likely to reach orgasm through anal than regular (I say more likely because I've never orgasmed from intercourse of any sort.....I stay tauntingly close to the edge).

But I also find I have to be in the mood. On the occasions where we have been rushed, or my mind just isn't there, it's not nearly as good for me or for M.